Firly and Logess

Alysia was begging me to tell her a story this week as I tucked he in bed.  I didn't do the fun story, my brain is not as sharp as it was when you were younger. Maybe I will refind it for my future grandchildren.  But it was fun to think of those times telling the stories that you helped to tell.

I have to tell you that the temple is just a phenom to me. It just gets better and better. We went on Friday and it has never been better. I was quite amazed this time as I both heightened and deepened my understanding because of an article I read in the New Era. There is so much truth all around us. 

We also got to see the new new movie. Each time this is updated, it does not change, but adds new insight to me that continues to expand my wonder of Gods plan for us. 

I might have a new opportunity at work.  A guy in planning is leaving and it might be a good fit for me. It would be a promotion if I decide to go for it and if I was selected. Same role as today but expanded and enlarged.   I have been pondering this pretty hard the past few days. After the temple I know that either way will be good for our family. 

Friday and Saturday we volunteered at forte events so we heard them both nights. I ushered doors and sold tickets. It was very low key work. Forte did 7 songs and 4 of them we're lead singers from the ward. They do great. And Gavin is miked so well that he is easy to hear and provides such a foundation for the songs. It is really fun to listen to him. 

Love you forever,

Dad

3 John 1:4

Temple and New Era

I was reading the New Era this afternoon and pondering on our family.  The first article was on preparing to enter the temple.  It was fantastic.  I learned things that I never understood before.  It also connected some dots for me in my own personal study.  It is wonderful to me to see how such a simple thing (a youth magazine) can help me to learn deeper and gain a better understanding of something I love so much already.  I forever have in my heart and mind the promises in the covenants and how much I rely upon those.  

It also was very interesting because both mam and I have been working with Gavin to prepare for the temple, and to ensure he is spiritually ready.  He is doing so great and working hard for the decade of decision.  This article is great for him also.  If you get a chance, read it.  But you have to take enough time to really ponder the details of what it is teaching.

I really am grateful that mom and I qualify ourselves to enter the temple every day.  It is a blessing not to be missed.  And I continue to learn and understand even after going for so many years.  I will continue to learn and understand deeper for many years to come.  Maybe someday there will be a temple in Norway and that will be the final genesis to actually get me back.  I loved watching Norway in the Olympics.  Yesterday I think was the last day and I watched the women take gold, silver, bronze in the 30km mass start.  By a huge margin.  Norway ended up getting the 2nd most golds and third most medals overall.  Even though they are such a small country.  Russia finished first in both which is not a surprise as the home country always does well.

We had our ward conference today, great talks on angels being all around us, and then Bishop talked about conversion, he did a great job.  It made me think of a quote about Knowing that the gospel is true is the essence of a testimony. Consistently being true to the gospel is the essence of conversion. (Bednar)   I whispered that to Ty and then bishop used it 5 minutes later.  Good man! :)  President Valencia then finished up with further thoughts about conversion and testimony.  It was a really good meeting to help me renew my commitment to do what is right.

This week after we fed the missionaries I went with them to go on visits.  We went to a ladies home (Lisa) who has a daughter at CHS.  The daughter knows many of the LDS kids and Gavin has her in his English class.  It was a really good discussion, she is a good person trying to do what is right.  They read regularly, pray as a family daily, and she has so many core values that are based in truth.  I tried hard to invite her to church but she is committed this week.  Maybe a future week.  She would be so happy with the gospel full truth to add to what she has.

We also had a great conversation during gospel principles and then in high priests group.  Both of them had investigators in the class and they made multiple comments that really added to the discussion and also gave me a chance to clarify truth and use scripture, modern prophets, and personal experiences to teach and testify.  It was just a great day.

Last night we went and volunteered at ICCA at CHS.  There are amazing voices out there in the world.  I think the forte high school group is as good as they were last night though.  I was the timer, so I had to track total time (they had 12 min limit) and then give them 3 minute and 1 minute warnings.  So I and mom sat on the front row, center seats.  But then I had to leave to help score tally during forte's performance so I missed that.  Mom said they did amazing.  Brandon Critchfield did one of the solos (he is a phenom) and Hailey did another.  It was a late night but fun to be with mom.

I also finished the shelves in the laundry area so it is almost totally done.  I custom made some solid surface (like Corian) shelves to go in between the cabinets up high.  Just some tough up and I am done.

I spent some time in the afternoon (it was mid 60's yesterday, now it will be around single digits at night, new cold spell,brrrrr) pulling up more honeysuckle.  We don't have too much left but enough to give me my spring workouts.  Strength training, flexibility like yoga, endurance (since I just keep going) and all.  It works good but I won't be sad to be done.  It does look a lot better.

WHSHPH.

Love you, Dad

3 John 1:4

Example of Integrity

Yesterday I spent the morning and afternoon helping at the family history jamboree. It turned out well as it usually does.  All the missionaries were a great help and we did it very quickly.  

After that I helped mom at the dance and it really was a great one.  Good kids all around.  And many came from all around, including Kentucky and Indiana.  Not the bi-stake spread they expected.

As I was spending the afternoon, (remarkably not on a project) I was trying to catch up on some Olympics.  I saw a spot on the American skeleton athlete who had finally won a medal.  I knew we didn't get medals in that.  So I watched and was impressed on how she conducted herself at the interviews after the race.  I watched one more and just thought how she "had" to be a member.  I looked it up and sure enough.  She is.  I then watched some more clips and interviews.  I was impressed that she has worked 12 years to get an Olympic medal and at the pinnacle of her career, did two things that I think show remarkable integrity.  First, she wore around her neck during interviews as well as actual competition her YW medallion complete with honor bee.  It was very clear to see and worn without apology.  In front of millions..  Second as she was so excited, and thanking those that supported her, her parting comment was "to all you youth out there, remember who you are and what you stand for."  I was pretty impressed that someone at that high point would even think of that.  

She is a mother of two, and trains in between diapers and pre-school.  She missed a medal in 2010 by one tenth of a second.

It is nice to see someone who can succeed so highly, yet remain so true to the gospel and testimony.  I would hope many of us can do so in our lives, work hard in this world, but always remain true to what we know of God's great plan of happiness.

Your mom is such an example.  She does so much good and works so hard to do what is right.  We are all blessed to have her. (especially me!).  

You are doing so well and I am proud to have you as my daughter.  You have and are making great choices, and I hope they continue to bless your life.

Love you,

Dad

3 John 1:4

I'm a mormon

The fireside went awesome.  There were tons of people there, Lots of non-members wanting to understand more of who we are and what we believe.  The people in the church that did their own profile sketch did a wonderful job.  I learned much about them in just a short time because they were willing to share.  And after many had questions and spent almost another hour discussing and asking questions.

I spent part of Sunday in a meeting with the zone leaders, the mission president, and President Valencia.  It really is a wonderful time to learn together, share ideas, and share the progress in the work of salvation.  It is amazing to me how much the work is moving forward at an accelerated pace.  There are so many people who are looking for the truth and are recognizing it in the teaching of the church.  It truly is the Church of Jesus Christ.  Many even recognize it but are not ready to make the commitment, but are working towards that goal.

I took Gavin to the airport after sacrament meeting so he could fly to Utah.  He is checking our BYU and BYUI.  He is having a hard time deciding where to go.  But regardless of where, he is still working on preparation to serve a full time mission.  It is interesting to watch him and his decisions change as he grows.  He has good examples ahead of him to show him the way!

I made great progress on the washroom this week.  The countertop edge and grout are all done, the sink is in.  When i hooked up the plumbing in all its convoluted way since it is a custom installation, I even got it to work first time with no leaks to follow up on.  It is great.

It is looking really good, we just have the shelves left to put in and then that project is done.  My body is getting tired of all the work.  Getting old has it's drawbacks as well as its benefits.

Gavin and I, and at a different time Ty and I were talking about the subtle but significant blessings that come from paying a full tithe.  From financial, to spiritual, to physical.  All around we can see blessing that directly relate.  It is always a privilege to remain a full tithe payer.  So many things we have been blessed with come as a result of that.  Gavin and Ty continue to have people both in and out of the church come to them to get work done on their homes.  It is a blessing that they can have such good work where they earn for their mission funds.  They both are so close to having enough.  It is a great sacrifice that they will be blessed from forever.

They are going to do a backsplash in tile and replace a kitchen floor next, we just have to find time to get it done.

Work hard in all things, and experience the peace that comes from doing your honest best.

Love you,

Dad

3 John 1:4

One Page Plan Of Happiness

In our leadership session of stake conference, Elder Christofferson challenged us to write our own one page plan of salvation.  To ponder and study and write our plan description, limited to one page.

In High Priests group today we ended up discussing this and sharing thoughts and ideas.  One of my favorite is that I always love to title it "The great plan of happiness".  Because there is a plan, and he gave it to us to make us happy.  Eternally.

Realize that all day everyday I make PowerPoint slides to communicate information on projects, issues etc at work.  So when they talk of a one page "report" I think in slides.  So mine is more of a bullet point slide that summarizes what I think is most important to me.  This likely changes over time but currently this is my summary:

• The Great Plan Of Happiness
• God is MY father
• Christ is MY Savior
• The Holy Ghost is MY friend
• My family is mine forever because of covenants I made with God
• I am a child of God
• Everyone that has been or will be on earth can be with God if they choose the Saviors way
• Adam and Eve made a remarkable choice that blesses me through their sacrifice

It was a great discussion and interesting to have so many comments about what people see as critical.  It is nice to be part of a quorum of fantastic men.

I got an off hand compliment at work this week.  I was in training the end of the week for "situational leadership" which is really changing your style and method of leading to fit the task or situation of a person (not the person itself, for example you may not need much direction if you were to cook a pizza, but if you were to do a chemical compatibility analysis for RoHS compliance you might need more specific direction).  Anyway, since I was at this class, I missed a major review with the president and all the VPs that we do every other month.  So I had the new planner who reports to me cover the meeting and all the preparation for it.  He did a great job, and is actually very skilled, smart and a great asset.  When I cam back late the afternoon of the class end, I went to my boss to get her feedback on how the meeting was, and how Craig (the planner) did.  

As she was describing the prep work and time spent with Craig going over the message, she said, I had to really dig in and understand all these topics I normally don't have to.  It was really good to get caught up but usually I know you are working them so there is only maybe one thing you want me to be aware of.  So she really feels like I have a handle on the programs and keep her informed at the right level.  That she trusts what I do and doesn't check up on it.  That is nice to have the trust.  I work hard to never violate or misuse that trust.  And to keep building it.  It makes for a much nicer work day, and for a much better peace of conscience.

I have attached in process pics of the laundry area of the boys room.  The edging for the countertop still needs to be mounted, and we have to grout.  The other pic is the sink.  We undermounted it to tile, not a usual thing, so we had to be creative.  We used glass tile as a surround, and made that the inside edge.  You can see that Ty and I had quite the time cutting those tile shapes around the sink (we still have it lined with plastic as a protection while we work on it).  Ty really has quite the gift.  He and Gavin are such helps.  They know so much and can work so hard.

Ty and Gavin have almost saved enough to pay for their missions.  Quite the awesome job they have done.  And people keep calling them to do work, like tile backsplashes and such.  Their work is beautiful.

Work hard, study hard, pray hard.  Love you.

Dad

3 John 1:4

Middletown Work Of Salvation

I got to visit Middletown ward today and speak.  The topic was "The thing of most worth" and I felt that this included the work of salvation.  There are 5 parts.  Member missionary work, convert retention, reaching out to those less active, temple and family history work, and gospel teaching.

I touched on each one a bit and shared some stories or things that would help them to consider their own life.  Like I asked them to think of a gospel teacher show had influenced their life.  Then paused for a long time in talk world, maybe 5-10 seconds to give them time to think.  Then had them think of why they had influenced their life.  And I proposed it was not flashy teaching, not deep doctrine, not fringe topics, but it was because they taught as the Savior taught.  They taught BY the spirit, not behind, not in front of, by by the spirit.  Meaning they worked with the spirit to help others really learn.

Remember how I always asked you what did you LEARN today?  I really was trying my best to help you consider what you had let sink deep into your heart that day.

I also looked forward to the next time I talk, I skip February but March I do again.  And the topic is another one that is so closely aligned with the work of salvation I think I will use much of the same stories etc.  I actually had only about 9 minutes to talk when they tell me to plan for 20 + so I just dropped a bunch out of each one and shrunk it.  Accordion playing should be a new skill of mine!  I spoke with 2 of the sister missionaries and they both went about 15 minutes (they said they had only 2-3 minutes each, but I knew better) and the meeting started almost 15 minutes late.

Mom is drawing/sketching everyone tonight.  It is really fun.  We played taboo boys against girls.  Boys rock!

It is getting so cold again now.  -19 predicted tomorrow night.  I am glad we have the wood stove.  We have had it going constant for the last few weeks.  I have had to clean out ashes when it is still burning hot so we could have room for more wood.  I feel like I should get a tan from it because it is so hot and it takes me a while to get them all when I am trying to avoid the reddest of coals.  But we all love the super warm air.  Saturday I got up and took all the snow off our driveway and then went and did Pete's.  I think it really helps them since he really cannot do things like that anymore.  2 weeks ago I did it Sunday morning after a big storm, and they were so grateful.  They didn't think they would be able to get out for church and because of us doing their driveway, they could.

Mom and I also spent Saturday morning getting wood from the stack and bringing it to the back patio.  I made 10 loads, 9 wheelbarrow and one in my arms.  The stack is now as tall as my shoulder and hopefully will last a few weeks.

If you have not recently, read your patriarchal blessing.  Brother Carter was called into the temple presidency and so was made a non-functioning patriarch today.  They are never released because it is an office, not a calling.  Brother Scott (former stake presidency) was called and ordained as the new patriarch.

Pray hard in your life, accept the promptings that come and qualify yourself to receive those often.  Then act on them.  It will always turn out in the end.

Love you tons, and I pray for you daily.

3 John 1:4

In His own time and in His own way

I have spent this past month and a half pondering on the topic for my Jan talk, "the thing of most worth" from D&C.  I have considered on this every week, lots on Sundays, and many other times during the time.  I begin to get a bit worried when I have considered the topic so much, but I still feel unsettled and don't have a good plan for the talk.  Even this weekend I spent at the barn campout with Gavin and Ty and as I settled into bed I read some things and tried to formulate a plan.  Notta.  I have gathered lots of good ideas, lots of quotes or personal experiences that support it, but no overall plan to make it work.

So this morning I try again and really consider on all the things I have been pondering.  And many of them I really like and felt very inspired to use, just no plan of how to get them all into a cohesive whole.  I went to church and continued on the thoughts but no plan.  I came home, napped (yeah) for a short while, and then got it out again since I really need to have the plan today since I speak next week and usually have little if no time during the week with work, other meetings at home, volunteer stuff for scouts or such.  I started thinking again and poof, I had one thought, started with that, and the rest just started falling into place.  He really helped me put together something I am very settled with and can tie in to many important principles that I need to share.

So even when we try hard, we still have to continue to trust in Him and in His own way, and in His own time, He will answer.  I really feel blessed at how much I am taken care of.  

I got to renew my temple recommend today.  It was very nice to have such confidence in my responses and know I am worthy to enter, learn, and improve myself.

Our scripture this week has been Romans 13:12-13 and we all really like the phrase "armor of light."  Give it a read!  It is also fun because the pen mom used was running out of ink, so as it goes along, it fades.  And as the scripture goes along, it talks about putting of darkness and putting on the armor of light.  So the ink gets lighter.  Simple mind, simple pleasure!

The campout was very nice to be at.  Reasonable food, very cold weather but a fire indoors to help keep it not too cold, great time to discuss with Gavin and Ty the Duty to God program and how they are doing, plans they have, and how they are trying to be better men.  Later they had a contest to build structure to protect eggs as they dropped them from the balcony.  1 foot of duct tape, straws, toothpicks, a plastic bag, and 2 spoons (straws and toothpicks of a certain limited number, but I did not count).  Three eggs out of about 20 did not splat, and you can guess that Gavin and Ty did not splat.  They even did it over and over and it survived.  Kind of a parachute structure with springy spoon and straw legs to cushion the landing.  Worked really well.  Everyone had 15 minutes to work it then they had to stop.

I had tons of key meetings this last week, so all week was crazy working to get the right material, the right answers, the right alignment between groups, so in the meetings we could have unified message.  They all went quite well and I am glad that is over.  I hope to be able to work through a lot of miscellaneous smaller things this week and feel like I am back in control.  We will see.

The washroom goes well, I got a door of sorts on the water heater so it closes it off to the room and makes it look less like a utility area.  I also added some shelves on top of it so Mom can store wash things, TP and paper towels etc. in bulk.  As you know we don't have much storage so this will be nice.  I still have to laminate the shelves but it is close.  I am really close to paint, and then the counter top to finish it all off.  

I helped the White boys get started on their Citizenship in the community merit badge.  I have not done that one for a long time.  We discussed a number of things and they have assignments to go to a city council or school board meeting, interview a government person on a issue etc.  They are all good learning things.

I am also getting things ready for a fireside in Feb. that will focus on "I'm a mormon" theme.  I am getting local people to do the I'm a mormon shorts, will use a few from the web, and then finish with a couple of doctrine based mormon messages and discussion on them.  All in an effort to help the community know who we are and what we believe.  I think many will see we have much in common with many in our community.  We are getting the word out through the wards, the youth programs (they are using this as a Bishops youth discussion for the three wards in our building) and through the interfaith council in the Dayton area.  So others can understand more of who we are.

Love you forever, work hard, study hard, pray hard.

3 John 1:4

Dad