Wonderful Week

What a fun week. It was so nice due to many things and ways to think of each of you. Skjelse and Jeff came to visit and we had a great time in Father's Day and my birthday. They also came later and we had a great smore time on the patio and fire pit. Complete with Alysia made special marshmallows. 

Kieren called a few times and it is fun to hear her progress and plans. Including great news on grad school. 

Gavin and Ty being together has been such a fun thought. I hope you we working hard and bringing the spirit with you wherever you go. 

I had a wonderful Friday at home off from work. We did so many nice things to just be together. Of course I did odd jobs, mowed the lawn, put things away etc. but we also went to BD's with my birthday coupon and then to Greaters with my birthday coupon. So nice!  I love your mom!

Saturday morning was nice also hanging around as long as I could. Then off I went to China where I am now. I ended up being in a flight with another Emerson person who is here for a while, then off the Philippines. I let my mind wander to times when Ty will be there. 

As I studied conf talks for my Sunday (time changes made me essentially miss all of Sunday) I found some great things. I especially appreciated the talk on the temple and the power of godliness. 

"These powers become available personally to each one of us through the ordinances and the covenants of the temple."

John the revelator also saw this time and what we do. As quoted in the talk:

"In the book of Revelation we read:

“What are these which are arrayed in white robes? and whence came they?

“… These are they which came out of great tribulation, and have washed their robes, and made them white in the blood of the Lamb.

“Therefore are they before the throne of God, and serve him day and night in his temple: and he that sitteth on the throne shall dwell among them.”

Mom and I dream of the day when we will have 12 of us together in the temple. Sealed and bound for time and all eternity together. To enjoy the sweet communion that comes as a family thought eternity. The blessings and promises and covenants of the temple and the priesthood power there are worth any sacrifice to qualify ourselves to get there. 

Love you all forever. 

Dad

3 John 1:4

Shall I falter or shall I finish?

So Pres. Monson has asked that question and it seems I have used that a number of times this week. At work, at church, in interviews. Just everywhere. He said in essence, "a fundamental question remains to be answered by each of us, shall I falter or shall I finish?"  And mostly it comes as Ty and I worked on the pergola Friday and Saturday.  At times I did not think we would finish. That we would run out of time with Ty's schedule. But we worked late on Friday and then stuck to it on Saturday. We even got a boost when Skjelse and Jeff showed up while we were on the top anchoring things in place. It was fun to see them and talk while we finished up top. 

But in the end we buckled down and got it all done. We are much faster on the end pieces than the first ones. And it think it turned out great. It was a blast to do with Ty as a pre-mission project. So we finished!  All we have to do after letting the treated wood dry is to stain it.  Mom will choose that color!

I had a multi day event at our innovation center at work and the best part was it is in Dayton by UD, so I was so close to home. There is a major shift in the regulations in the industry and we have to be ahead of that. It will come in another 7 years formally but work is beginning now with us and the manufacturers. It amazes me that industries have to be so far ahead to have products ready to meet the laws.  

Saturday Alysia, Ty and I did a 5K and a 5K/10mile bike events. It's my first official one and my knee feels it. Alysia did both and her hips feel it, and Ty wonders if anything happened, like he's just a machine. So nice to be young and have your body still at full speed. The 2nd one was for Easton who is severely handicapped. They were raising money to get a van with a wheelchair lift so his mom does not have to lift him in and out each time. And they met their goal!  It was a ton of community support, and well deserved. 

Thanks for the words and calls and visits for Father's Day. I am so proud to be a father and know that it is the most important eternal role. I could ask for no better spouse and kids. Please make the choices needed every day to qualify for eternal life. I want you all there with mom and I. With your spouses. (Jeff is #1!, 4 more to follow). 

That is what brings a father joy. 

Love you all forever. 

Dad

3 John 1:4

Primary Song Learning

It was awesome at Ward council today. We were talking about various topics and the concept of reverence came up. After a bunch of comments and great insight it became clear that we all learned what we needed in primary songs. "Reverence is more than just quietly sitting."  It was great how everyone realized that and it all tied back to such basic principles that we learn through music in primary. 

Ty and I made some more progress on the arbor. We got all the top cross beams dadoed, and then the ends routed. The frustrating part was I had worked through all of them and was on the next to last board, the last end. I put the template on it and started routing it. Before I could realize it the template slipped and the bit went way too deep off track and it ruined the board. I was sooooo close!  It was disheartening. But Ty helped me pull out and we quickly dadoed the extra I had and then the next two ends went well. So we got them all up. Not anchored yet but up. Ty also used geometry and match to figure out how to put the right size and shape arc in some corner pieces and I cut out two samples that worked great. 

It was such a fun week to be in Indy for a meeting then go down to girls camp for Ward night. We talked about creation and how the scriptures remind us of God's creations and what we see brings those scriptures to mind. I used Helaman 5:12 building upon the Rock and my experience with hiking Prekestolen. Skjelse, you should know that well!  Then mom and I went back to stay my last night in the hotel, and the next day had a wonderful day date. We went to an imax, and went all over white river state park. Beautiful place and fun to be there. We went to breakfast at first watch and enjoyed that too. Then we ended the day at the Indy temple. It was wonderful.  So amazing with the light coming in the windows at sunset and just at the right time. It was so fun. 

I had a great Saturday morning also with a PPI with Pres. Valencia. He is great to openly discuss this with and get new ideas and help to work through challenging things. As we listen to others, and take action on things they help us with, we can get more accomplished than if we try to do it on our own accord. Try it!

This week has brought great joy, for many reasons. Keep it up. 

Love you forever,

Dad

3 John 1:4

Single Most Important Skill

We had a wonderful bishops youth discussion tonight with just the priests and laurels. I asked the seniors to consider what is the most important skill they can take with them as they venture out on their own. So the first person had two, the next seven, and the next three!  Ty had just one with several sub parts of why it relates. "Doing laundry" was his item. It was funny but remarkable how he tied in so many things that do relate physically and spiritually. I never knew until tonight how vital laundry was!

I had a fantabulous sabbath. Morning meetings were good, church was awesome, had a great lesson with the priests where we had a powerful witness from one who just returned from a mini mission, and then had wonderful interviews that totally makes a bishop pleased. 

Ty and I have made progress on the arbor over the patio. We had prepped a bunch of the boards, I showed you before the concrete pillars we poured, and then we finished by doing the total layout assembly and bolt together. Then we had Lys and Mom help us erect it and then we tied the cross beams to hold it steady until we can finish more of the rafter parts. Then trim it out and stain it. It will be great. 

My car went wacko last weekend, so I ordered parts and then this week Ty and Lys helped me take off the intake manifold, replace the knock sensor, coil packs and spark plugs, then work it all back together. For about $120 in parts we completed about a $1200 job. Quite the work. And it runs great again. The main issue was a coil pack going bad. But when one goes, the others often go soon. 

Everyone is scattering this week. I am going to Indianapolis for meetings, mom and Lys to Indiana for girls camp, and Ty to Gatlinburg for high adventure. Crazy week but everyone will have fun. 

Love you all forever,

Dad

3 John 1:4